The Partner Newsletter

Hey what’s up!

In today’s episode, we’ll be discussing a topic that a subscriber reached out about. They mentioned they were struggling with understanding who in their life are their friends, and who are simply acquaintances. They ultimately want to be mindful of their time and energy, and make sure they are focusing their efforts and attention on the right people. Although we all need both friends and acquaintances, we need to be aware that they require different levels of attention, maintenance, and support, and we don’t want to waste our valuable time on a one-sided relationship.

Relationships with people can be confusing, complex, and often complicated. There is an unsettling feeling when you realize someone you considered to be a good friend is actually only an acquaintance. While both people can bring value to our lives, knowing how to tell the difference between an acquaintance and a friend is extremely important.

Here are some attributes I consider when determining an acquaintance vs a friend, which I hope will help you decide which relationship / person you are dealing with. Knowing the difference is key to maintaining healthy, fulfilling, and long-lasting relationships.

Acquaintance Attributes

· Rarely do you spend time together outside of specific contexts (work, yoga class, etc.)

· Your knowledge of personal details are very limited.

· Conversations are very basic and surface level.

· You don’t turn to them when you need support.

· They don’t go out of their way to see you.

Friend Attributes

· Both of you know intimate details about each other’s lives.

· You spend time together outside of organized events.

· No social battery is needed when you hang out (aka effortless).

· You pick up right where you left off.

· You understand each other’s boundaries.

· Providing emotional support is expected.

· You restrain judgment.

Knowing the difference between a friend and an acquaintance will help you avoid misunderstandings and unrealistic expectations in relationships. By having a firm grasp on your level of connection and interaction with someone, you will be able to properly approach the relationship and align your needs, value, and time.

Hopefully this post will leave you better prepared in identifying relationships in your life and allocating your efforts appropriately!

Acquaintances are there for moments. Friends are there for life.

Sunday Snacks! 

This Week’s Snack

Chomps

Website Link

https://chomps.com

My Favorite Flavor

Jalapeño

Why I Like It

10g of protein. 0g of sugar. Grass-fed and grass-finished beef. Don’t have to refrigerate. Wide variety of flavors. Easy on-the-go snack. I recommend buying at Costco for the best prices!